Ode to Loss

Losing everything. It means different things to different people — what constitutes losing everything — but the end result is all the same. You wake up one day and your entire world has been “lost”; twisted into such a surreal

Ode to Loss

Losing everything. It means different things to different people — what constitutes losing everything — but the end result is all the same. You wake up one day and your entire world has been “lost”; twisted into such a surreal

On Being A Rolling Stone

I spend a lot of time worrying about weird things. For example, where I will be buried. Coming from a military family, I have no definitive hometown, with generational roots. My parents both earned the honor of being ensconced at

On Being A Rolling Stone

I spend a lot of time worrying about weird things. For example, where I will be buried. Coming from a military family, I have no definitive hometown, with generational roots. My parents both earned the honor of being ensconced at

soph

Someone Call This Animal’s Mother

I’m an empty nester. The last of my fledglings followed his hormones out of the house last year. I still skirt his empty room, as if it’s some kind of shrine to bad smells. I assumed I’d barely notice, or

soph

Someone Call This Animal’s Mother

I’m an empty nester. The last of my fledglings followed his hormones out of the house last year. I still skirt his empty room, as if it’s some kind of shrine to bad smells. I assumed I’d barely notice, or

oz

How To Survive a Rotating Train

Along with drawls, I had to get used to “severe weather” when I transplanted to the Southeast. I’m used to storms — these are not storms, that we have here. They are biblical events. “Severe” is an understatement designed not

oz

How To Survive a Rotating Train

Along with drawls, I had to get used to “severe weather” when I transplanted to the Southeast. I’m used to storms — these are not storms, that we have here. They are biblical events. “Severe” is an understatement designed not

esso

(Your) Help (Not) Wanted

After fifteen years of marriage (this time around, anyway) it’s once again been determined that I am unfit for ongoing companionship. In other words, I’m divorcing again. This means many things, to a beyond-middle-aged woman with no assets, skills, ambition

esso

(Your) Help (Not) Wanted

After fifteen years of marriage (this time around, anyway) it’s once again been determined that I am unfit for ongoing companionship. In other words, I’m divorcing again. This means many things, to a beyond-middle-aged woman with no assets, skills, ambition

bluebird

How To End A Relationship

Ending a relationship can be tricky. Especially when that relationship includes an unhealthy attachment to drama and even the occasional trauma.  Here are a few rules for the occasion: *Don’t answer the telephone. It’s just someone who wants to tell

bluebird

How To End A Relationship

Ending a relationship can be tricky. Especially when that relationship includes an unhealthy attachment to drama and even the occasional trauma.  Here are a few rules for the occasion: *Don’t answer the telephone. It’s just someone who wants to tell

mamaw

Me and Mamaw

Having been a military brat, I never lived in one place long enough to really consider myself as being “from” anywhere. I do know one place I never anticipated having to consider myself “from” is the Southeast. Despite this being

mamaw

Me and Mamaw

Having been a military brat, I never lived in one place long enough to really consider myself as being “from” anywhere. I do know one place I never anticipated having to consider myself “from” is the Southeast. Despite this being

anarchy

My 300 Sons

Children are exponential. For every child you give birth to, there will be at least a dozen friends in his or her wake at any given time. They flock, like birds. And, for some reason, they always came to roost

anarchy

My 300 Sons

Children are exponential. For every child you give birth to, there will be at least a dozen friends in his or her wake at any given time. They flock, like birds. And, for some reason, they always came to roost

platy

God Is A Platypus

I’m very advanced, spiritually. I even know that the trick to understanding Buddhism is not even bothering to try to understand it. I’ve even read A Course In Miracles from cover to cover, which is a feat usually reserved for

platy

God Is A Platypus

I’m very advanced, spiritually. I even know that the trick to understanding Buddhism is not even bothering to try to understand it. I’ve even read A Course In Miracles from cover to cover, which is a feat usually reserved for

doc

Seven To Ten Days

I dislike going to the doctor. Mostly because I have no insurance and I’d rather pay money to eat, than to wait around all day just to get whapped in the kneecap. However, I recently found the matter outside of

doc

Seven To Ten Days

I dislike going to the doctor. Mostly because I have no insurance and I’d rather pay money to eat, than to wait around all day just to get whapped in the kneecap. However, I recently found the matter outside of